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FIND YOUR EROTIC VOICE, UNLOCK YOUR DESIRE, FEEL, AGAIN.
THURSDAYS IN NOVEMBER 8-9pm
4 WEEK COURSE to find the words you never dared find.
What happens when we let ourselves be playful? Give permission to ourselves to want and to be wanted? What happens when we creatively engage with our unknown? In a stressful world, celebrating pleasure is an act of defiance and rebels can be fun.
Author Emily Ostlere and I are collaborating to bring our combined passion and resources to help you to open the door to your erotic world, find the words and speak from there.
This course is about: Aliveness, Curiosity, Imagination, Play.
It’s so much more than a sexy story, it’s savouring our senses, the small and intentional, the imaginative, safe and free. Healing is collective. In this course pleasure is our medicine and we are here to help you access it.
What actually is this?
A four week explorative writing course. Your privacy and boundaries will be honoured and protected. There will be no pressure or obligation to share your words. We will bring themes and lead you slowly on a journey, no jumping off to the deep end. It will be light and deep and all at your pace.
modules
Week one 6th Nov: The Invitation - Create a scene, invite yourself or someone else to play through your writing. Surrender to imagination, get curious, let pleasure in
Week two 13th Nov: Not Yet - For your inner Giver. Tension and tease. Writing control, desire and connection
Week three 20th Nov: Come Here - Using our erotic energy to take up space. Give yourself permission to receive. Experience wanting and deserving
Week four 27th Nov: Aftertaste - Writing what lingers. Love letters to pleasure and vulnerability
For all of you:
I haven’t been feeling myself
I can’t remember what turns me on
The spark in my relationship has dwindled
I’m feeling bored and listless
I am longing for more
I feel unseen and invisible
The true me is hidden
I haven’t been saying what I mean
I am craving a different kind of energy and attention
I want to be looked at
I’m scared but I’m more scared of nothing changing
I feel far away from myself
I’ve lost my zest for things
I miss my old self
I’ve never let this part of me be truly seen
Emily Ostlere is a writer with a special interest in attachment and relationships. She has a degree in Literature, MA in Social Work, Advanced Certificate in Erotic Psychology and is a graduate of Esther Perel’s, Speaking of Sex: Integrating Couples and Sex Therapy.
Emily writes about love, fidelity and therapy on her Substack, Love Sandwich and Instagram @emilyostlerewrites.
Her debut novel I’M NOT NORMALLY LIKE THIS is scheduled for release in the UK and US in Spring 2027 with Borough press and William Morrow at HarperCollins. She lives on a smallholding with her family in North Yorkshire and likes tea, voicenotes and small plate dates.